10 SIGNS YOU ARE IN AN ABUSIVE MARRIAGE.

A healthy marriage if filled with love, understanding and tolerance. No marriage is without issues, but any marriage which is built on equality is an unhealthy one.

A lot of people are in an abusive marriage but have not realized it yet. You can not just look at your partner’s face and know they are abusive. These 10 signs will help you know you are in an abusive marriage.

1. Financial Control.
In an abusive marriage, your partner closes your joint account without telling you. They sometimes question you about every expenses you make. Demanding for a vivid account of your expenses. You have to be careful. It is a sign of an abusive marriage.

2. Digital Spying.
When your spouse begins to go through your emails checking your messages, when they begin to monitor whom you call or chat with, you should know that it’s a sign of abuse. They want control your digital life.

3. Use Of Unpleasant tone of voice.
If you want to know if you are in an abusive relationship, check the way your spouse speaks to you. When then always use that authoritative voice or shout on top of their voice for the slightest thing you do, know that your marriage is an abusive one

4. Refusing to communicate.
Every healthy marriage is built on a good communication skills. The moment your spouse begins to avoid communicating with you, you should know there is trouble. They don’t want to know your opinion about anything neither do they want discuss what is going on in their lives. When you even initiate the conversation they don’t want to listen.

5. Isolating You From Family And Friends.
In an abusive relationship, you are forbidding to see your friends and families. Apart from your spouse you are not allowed to see any other person. This a big sign of an abusive marriage.

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6. Threats.
Threats are when you are warned against doing something you like to do. When you realise that your spouse has started warning you against certain actions you are taking, please don’t take it lightly, it’s a sign of marriage abuse.

7. Snubs.
In an abusive marriage, the victim is always disvalued by the perpetrator. They snub every good thing you do.

8. Envy.
Jealousy is also another sign that you are in an abusive marriage. They get offended you receive or even make calls.

9. Over protectiveness.
When you realise that your partner is being possessive. Don’t talk to this person, don’t ever visit your parents house without my knowledge,if you don’t know and you disrespect me, I will……… This should tell you that you are in an abusive marriage.

10. Having Extra Marital affair.
When your partner begins to have an affair outside marriage, know that you being abused. You can still be in your matrimonial home and still not be recognized by your spouse. This is an emotional abuse.

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Please an abusive living with an abusive person is very dangerous and risky. When you begin to see any of these signs, please seek for help or talk to a friend. Do not allow anything to stop you from getting help. Remember, your life is more precious than any other thing on this earth. You can subscribe to our University and get any of our packages to educate you more about marriage and relationships.

Arthur: Mrs. Janet Appiah | janet@mpenatwe.com